A few days ago I went to Napoleon’s
tomb, which is housed in the prominent church
or Dome of the Invalides. This building is very close to the French National
Assembly (itself a stunning architectural gem), and right across from the
ornate Alexander 3rd bridge—a bridge distinguished from others in the city by
four large golden statues of flying horses which shine brightly all the time, whether
during the day from the sun’s reflection, or during the night when illuminated by
the street lights. The same bridge connects the Invalides with the grandiose
Champs-Elysee quarter and the Eiffel Tower. Thus even before one enters the
church with Napoleon’s tomb, or rather as one approaches it, already one is
witness to some of the most magnificent public spaces in Paris (and perhaps the
world). The church of the Invalides itself is a historical artifact; it was
built in the late 17th century, and both royalty and soldiers
attended religious services there, especially before and after great battles.
Prominently displayed in the interior of the church were the flags, or
insignias, of various armies around Europe, and at its peak there were
thousands of them. After the revolution, devout believers in the god of reason
entered and seized the church, burned most of the flags, destroyed other
priceless relics, and transformed the building into a temple of Mars (Roman god
of war). Thankfully, Napoleon reversed this madness and returned the church to
its original owners (the Roman Catholic Church), and restored some of the
surviving flags and icons.
Napoleon's tomb |
Alexander 3rd Bridge |
The tomb, in a sense, deifies Napoleon,
which is rather strange when one remembers that the two major spirits of the
French nation—Christianity and the Enlightenment—have universalist and
egalitarian impulses. But the worship of Napoleon makes sense when one considers
that the tomb is clearly designed to present him as a kind of modern Augustus
Caesar, the Roman Emperor who founded and modernized the empire and who was the
author of ancient Rome’s golden age (or the Pax Romana, roughly the first two
centuries AD). Augustus, like other great emperors, was worshiped by Romans,
quite literally, after the Roman Senate decreed his divinity. Napoleon’s tomb
reproduces that spirit through and through.
Moving on to more prosaic and immediate
issues, while observing couples during my daily excursions in Paris, I noticed a few patterns. More than in other places, I saw many
average-looking males with attractive females, and average-looking
females with attractive males. I also saw many younger men with older
women, particularly middle aged or close to middle aged men with women who are
seniors or close to that phase; this suggests that French President Emmanuel
Macron’s marriage to a woman 24 years older than him (he is 39, she is 63) is
not unique. This has sparked my curiosity about the reasons for this pattern,
but my limited knowledge of French sociology and culture prevent me from
developing an informed explanation. I can therefore only conjecture, and I
think that Parisians, more than others, place relatively more value on
non-physical qualities in their romantic endeavours. Their city clearly shows
that they highly value knowledge, history, cultural refinement, and
spectacle/presentation. It is reasonable to presume, it seems, that they
similarly value these things when meeting a potential romantic partner; it follows
that if one scores highly on those criteria, their age and/or physical attraction
may matter less. Youth and beauty probably are important everywhere, but in Paris at
least, it seems that both are less so. Strikingly, it seems that in Paris this
is true for both sexes.
As I write this, my sojourn in Paris is
coming to a close. Most of my experiences have been very positive,
although it is my first time in the city, and like the new convert or someone at the beginning of a
love affair, I have been somewhat smitten, which means my emotions and
aesthetic sense have prevailed over my rational faculties. Were I to stay longer, I'd probably be somewhat more critical.